They'll make you laugh, cry and maybe feel a little sorry for yourself.
(CNN) -- You have to think about picking up girls the exact same way you think about picking up a box. It thinks, analyzes and makes excuses, so rejection is self-inflicted before women even get a chance to do it.
Large dudes will frequently lament that their size automatically disqualifies them from dating – they believe that there is simply no way a woman could possibly like somebody who’s body isn’t rippled and shiny like a buttered ear of corn. Kevin Smith, for all of his fashion sins that I will get into in a second, is happily married with a lovely wife and daughter. It’s easy to forget this when the TV and magazines are showing you nothing but image after image of cut, veiny men with swimmers builds with women draped all over them like fur stoles, but women actually like a far wider range of body types than we’d think.
Ask five women what their ideal male build is and you’ll get six different answers.
And yet even when the number of people who are considered overweight form the majority of the population, obesity is in many ways one of the remaining acceptable prejudices.
In advanced stages, some may even become frustrated enough to start mimicking that “I-like-you/I-like-you-not” behavior themselves in an attempt to “punish” the objects of their unrequited love.“Even a well-meaning compliment can catch a woman off guard and make her feel weird,” says Stephanie Coburn, USA Triathlon Certified Coach for Jack Rabbit Sports.“Instead, initiate a low-key conversation about training, local races, or anything that allows you to actually have a back-and-forth conversation.Here, the best tips that’ll make her change her focus from working out to going out—with 1. People tend to hit the gym at similar times, and she’ll be more likely to want to have a conversation with you if she recognizes you than if you’re a total stranger.And the best way to get to know someone is to add some classes to your schedule.