Once you’ve spent some time getting a better feel of how they view the small stuff, gradually increase the depth and scope of the conversation topics to things like big purchases, lifestyles, saving and retirement.
I could seem if you talked to someone often you'd run out of things to say.
Actually, the more you speak to someone the more specific and detailed you can get.
When you haven't spoken to someone in a while, even if they're a good friend, your conversation tends to be very general at first, as you try to summarize huge amounts of information: "So what have you been up to? I got promoted to Regional Manager and Natasha is pregnant with our second child." When you talk to someone often they're already familiar with the nitty gritty details of your life, so you can update them on small future developments as they come up.
Far too many women make the mistake of assuming that a man is dating them exclusively after just a few dates, or after they have sex for the first time.
But this is often a false assumption, and heartache can easily ensue.